Thursday, November 17, 2005

platonic relationship - an impossible task?

this issue has always been talked about, studies and psychological review has been done and it even appeared in newspaper columns several times over the past year. the million dollar ques - can't a guy and a gal have a normal friendship without getting emotionally involved?
why is it that whenever a guy and gal develops a close friendship, rumors must spread about their "relationship"? can't they just be frens?
yeah, i know bout the lust and sexual desire argument. but come on. dun tell me everytime a guy gets close to a gal, it will send his hormones raging?
anyway, i think that it is possible for a guy and a gal to remain frens, close frens without getting emotionally/ sexually involved. i really do believe that.

5 comments:

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Lavender said...

yeah.. we can! :) hehhe.. frens 4va... :P

WY said...

most of the time..i realize..either the girl or the guy would slip up and give in to whatever thoughts they have.

but i do believe in close platonic friendship with girls...coz i have so many of them! hahahah...girls no longer attracted to me..:(

Jr. said...

Yeah, i'm sure it's fine to have a guy and girl being close friends.

Just watch One Tree Hill... ;)

Anonymous said...

well..being a girl. i can honestly say MOST if not ALL guys i know would rate a girl by looks. so unless the girl is normal looking [or...[please excuse me]..on the not-so-pretty side]...it is usually hard to keep up a platonic friendship with a pretty girl...

do i sound biased? maybe. just a thought